SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE

 Knowing the signs of sexual abuse can help to give a voice to children. Any child is at risk, though it is important to remember that both boys and girls can be sexually abused. Children more vulnerable to sexual abuse are children with disabilities (since the child might not be able to understand what is happening to them is abuse, or might not be able to tell someone), and children who are experiencing neglect or other forms of abuse.

Many instances of sexual abuse involve perpetrators known to the child—a family member, a friend, a teacher, or even a sports coach. The threat doesn't stop at in-person encounters; it extends to the online realm, where existing relationships may be exploited. Whether it's a one-time incident or a gradual manipulation, the impact on the child is profound.

Physical Indicators:

• Difficulty walking or sitting.
• Pain, itching, bleeding, bruising, or unusual discharge in the genital area or anus.
• Urinary or sexually transmitted infections.

Health-Related Changes:

• Persistent sore throats.
• Unexpected pregnancies.
• Refusal to change for physical activities.

Behavioural Shifts:

• Avoidance of being alone with specific individuals.
• Inappropriate knowledge of sex for their age.
• Use of inappropriate sexual language.
• Sexualized behaviour in play or with other children.

Emotional and Social Impact:

• Bed-wetting.
• Changes in eating habits or the development of eating disorders.
• Lack of peer relationships.
• Sleep disturbances or nightmares.
• Refusal to attend school.
• Running away from home.
• Alcohol or drug use.
• Heightened anxiety.
• Instances of self-harm or attempted suicide.

 If a child is being sexually abused online, they may exhibit the following behaviour: 

• Spending more time than usual online, texting, or gaming.
• Appearing distant, upset, or angry after internet or texting use.
• Being secretive about online actions or connections.
• Accumulating new phone numbers, texts, or messages.